I think this is what people need to consider and always do things for self satisfaction and good of others
Hannibal Lecter to Clarice : Those people you despise almost as much as they despise you. Would they give you a medal, Clarice, do you think? Would you have it professionally framed and hang it on your wall to look at and remind you of your courage and incorruptibility? All you would need for that, Clarice, is a mirror . (Hannibal, 2001) http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0212985/